Desciplining & Respect
The moment I realize that I own all my feelings & it's me who is responsible then I put the blame on myself & I start expressing my feelings(my own feelings) then I become very much relaxed. This helps me in being flexible & relaxed.
I was thinking disciplining vs respect & my thoughts were
Once I respect the child the way I respect myself, then I connect with the child & then automatically disciplining happens. I want to have more practical experience of this.
I want to share one incident. One day my child & I were playing & I ran & my daughter held my dress & pulled it hard that my dress tore. For a moment I was silent & then I smiled & went on. After sometime I told Medha that I felt sorry for my dress. She asked me why you smiled then? I asked her what else should I have done? Immediate reply "you should have hit me". I was shocked to hear what all these days I made her think. I realized my biggest mistake in one moment.
Thanks Ratnesh.
suma v
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