Thursday, August 30, 2007

yesterday's session

hi all,
yesterday's session was about-----------------------
 
i am still not able to accept all the things discussed at geniekids as told by the facilitators.
 
with 80% of the kids the things told at geniekids might be true but what if some day you are with a group of children who are from the remaining 20%.
 
it is good not to put the blame on the child by saying "you irritate me" or "you hurt me" or -----------------
 
but when you are happy why shouldn't we make the child feel that "i am happy because of you". i understand about pressure but a coin has two sides.
 
just think about an incident when your child really felt for something but didn't do it coz "my mummy will be unhappy about this".
 
if it is alright to be angry then why isn't it right to make the child feel that "yes i am proud of you because you have done this" that doesn't mean that i am not proud of you always, yes this have increased my height by 1/10th if a mm.
 
won't if help in booming the self esteem of the child. we have to teach the child to take it in a +ve way and not as something to pressurize the child.
 
sayonara
pragya
 


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