hi everyone,
today's session was a precious learning for me.
1. parent child control from superior or powerful poit of view is little difficult and it sometimes fails also.
2.but when we RESPECT THE CHILD the magic light spreads all around.and itseems to work like an everready battery or a duracell
3.who dislikes being complimented for a child's behaviour and who dosent feel bad for a child's complaint?
can you still remain at peace of mind after a complaint?
decepline for our house can be a CHALEGA TYPE OR SAB CHALTA HAI..
BUT our society will not accept it..
For celebrites it becomes fashion or style but for a layman it does not work.
you cant go with a colourful shirt and a short pant and slippers for a corporate interview.
you should even maintain punctuality.
you should have decent speech ,tone and even language.
so decepline at some extent is necessary and important to me .otherwise we will be laid behind .
After the session i felt that i should set an example of good behaviour to my child .
it is also possible that she will see others not so good type of behaviour also and may be she may learn that also .and she should decide which is healthy for her.
4.we should also use the word SORRY for them when we feel we are wrong or hurt her. as we do for our elders. then why not to our own children.
5.even one word from our side is pretty enough for them.
6.best key for expressing our feelings is to speak out rather than sit alone with a balloonlike face. no one likes it at all and by doing so, unintensionally we are hurting so many else.so speaking about our feelings will always be a type of short cut to a major MAHABHARAT.
7.I will love to seek HELP from my children
comments and appreciations are always welcomed.
even god loves praises ..... phir mein to insaan hoon...
happy sweety...
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