Though I had attended the same session with 8ttt, experience with this group was a new one.
The first step to do when you are confronted with a challenging situation is RELAX. I realise the importance of this though I donno how far I'll be able to tell myself to do so.
This proverb makes some sense with slight modification here 'If you can't change the situation, join them and have fun'
I think if you put the child in the same level as yourself, u'll never hit/shout the child.
Imporatance of non-verbal/leaving a note here and there will do the job more effectively.
Throwing tantrums Vs Anger makes me think about situations where I got confused b/w both of them.
I am also thinking of situations where discipline becomes important, not necessarily for kids but adults too. Following Qs arise in my mind
1) A look at our MPs and MLAs reinforces the importance of discipline.
2) What about collages and institutions? Isn't it important there?
3) Why is discipline stressed so much in army, navy and airforce? What'll happen if discipline is absent in these places?
4) Isn't discipline a set of rules 2 parties agree to abide?
5) What is SELF DISCIPLINE?
Regarding Punishment
1) Is it enough to face consequences than let someone be punished?
2) In a group if someone is causing a problem to others then is some sort of step to be taken? Ex 'getting out of the class' or sitting alone. Will it be viewed as punishment?
3) If rewarding for a good job is fine then not rewarding for an 'okay' job punishment especially for an expectant child?
Keep thinking,
Shubha
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