Monday, July 16, 2007

where is my emotion ??

This session was an eye opener for me.
Making me very conscious n uncomfortable thinking that what was I doing all thiese days with my daughter.
Practically speaking, even though now I know that I need to handle emotions, it doesnt come to me naturally all the time.
Its so important to hold urself back n just acknowledge the emotions. I am finding it difficult to implement all the times.
Well, its a belief that its difficult. I want to break this belief.
The problem lies sometimes( from my personal exp) that we r so much attached with our kids emotionally, that first thing that I need to do is acknowledg my feelinbgs first.
When I see my kid in problem, I myself become emotional. I realised that I should aknowledge my feelings first, then go ahead and acknowledge the kids feelings.
I need to be stronger , and stable.
Kirti

2 comments:

kirti said...

sorry, forgot to put the name.
Its me -kirti

Anonymous said...

Hi Kirti,
Nice to know that u are taking effort to practice what you ahve learnt.
I am also trying it on all kids I find in my apartment(20-25 kids). I am taking an effort to think what I am saying to the child before I actually say it. One has to have a lot of restrain not to react in the usual way. And result is great. One child told me to accompany him to his tennis class to see how hw plays!!!


Shubha