Monday, July 23, 2007

self esteem

"NO ONE CAN MAKE YOU FEEL INFERIOR WITHOUT YOUR CONSENT"
 
This is Self Esteem.
 
"S" means be SPECIFIC when you praise the child. It encourages the child. He tries to do even better.
 
"E" means EMPHASIZE more on the strengths of a child rather than his weakness. Make the child realise the resources he has inside him.
 
"L"  means LOVE AND PRAISE the child from the heart and do it frequently without any frills added to it.
 
"F"  means FOCUS on the right things of the child, because "What you FOCUS on is what you get". Coal mine leads to Diamond. A coal merchant never gets Diamond.
 
 
 
"E"  means ENTER into a world where you respect the child. Never argue or fight in their presence. They may not feel safe then, which in turn can reduce their self esteem.
 
"S"  means SEE the things done correct by the child, instead of seeing the things done incorrectly by the child.
 
"T" means THINK positive about the child. What you think shows it's affect on the child without you telling them.
 
"E"  means set an EXAMPLE for the child. If you say it's difficult or I cannot do it, the child will copy you.
 
"E"  means EXPAND your beliefs about the child. Use "and" instead of "." while talking about the child. He is clever and he is obdient and he is curious and he is active and he is sensitive and he is intelligent and he is frank and-----------------
The child will also copy you, which inturn increases his self esteem.
 
"M"  means MAKE the child strong enough to  deal with criticism. Teach them to take criticiam in a healthy and positive way.
 
All these words put together will help to develop "SELF ESTEEM"
 
 
------PRAGYA---------- 
 
 
 


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