The session was too disturbing. But finally brought me peace.
I am really really trying to look at intensions for all actions.
Sometimes it takes time to find one, but once ound it becpmes very easy to accept it.
I am trying it out with my daughter for every action of hers.
I am trying to express that I accept , or I agree or I appreciate her intensions even though not agreeing to her behvior.
She sometimes kind of understands what I am tryiong to do and cooperates with me. Sometimes she doesnt. Her vocab of feelings needs to be developed and for that mine too.
And why kids, it makes my life easier with everyne. I can really really accept ppl more ,
I can really connect with them more..
Experimenting it with adults too and its working.
Can I really accept the way my child is intellient ?
This too is a confusing question.
I feel it needs lot of awareness in myself . I was thinking that I can accept my child the way she is.
But somewhere I realised that I am still expecting some intelligences in her and am still kind of forcing her to exhibit them.
I had forgotten that I just need to expose her to all kind of intelligence but what she is interested in , is her choice. Only then I would say that I have given her freedom.
Now I can appreciate her the way he/she is.
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